Recently I’ve been going through a lot of reassessment, and you may have realised there has not been a blog update for a couple of weeks. This blog has come a long way from when it began, starting as a travel blog of my sexual discoveries while in the USA, then grew to something much more permanent.
I’ve covered so many topics, and learnt a hell of a lot along the way. I also hope other people have learnt just as much. Some that stand out to me are:
In sex:
- Fucking on first dates
- Hooking up with “straight” guys
- Toys
- The inception of Grindr
- Me being sexually assaulted
- Cum and its potentially awful taste
- Being asked to become an escort
In relationships:
“That’s a bit gay” has been great fun, but after one year of blogging on (let’s face it – my sex life), it’s time to move into something new and exciting. Although not my primary reason for change, it’s fair to say TABG has taken its toll my relationships, and some people find it confronting dating “Melbourne’s gay Carrie Bradshaw” [I take that as a compliment – as much as we HATE Carrie most of the time]. But let’s be honest – those relationships were not going anywhere anyway…
I’ve had people sleep with me ‘cause of my blog. I’ve had people NOT sleep with me, ‘cause of my blog. I’ve had people know what I like in a man, ‘cause of my blog. I even had complete strangers ask how my PEP treatment was going – because of my blog.
It’s been one hell of a ride, but it’s time for a change. Stay tuned for a new website, some new content, and hopefully the same writing so many of you enjoy.
Thank you so much for your support, and continuing to enjoy what I have to say on the topic of sex and relationships. I believe openness and honesty on sexuality are major keys to success when it comes to sex and relationships, and hopefully I have encouraged people to talk about this topic that is becoming less ‘taboo’ than it was years ago.
I’m not going anywhere, I’m just going in a new direction, and I hope to see you there with me.
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CONGRATULATIONS JAMES.
That’s a bit Gay! has challenged us, inspired us, titillated and disgusted us.
Most importantly it had educated us and I know everyone that has read your blog or heard it on JOY 94.9, has been in awe of your honesty.
You have been brave to share yourself with the world so truthfully and it’s a trait so rare these days.
I know that whatever it is that lays ahead, your integrity will deliver it with the same authenticity – you are always true to your (written) word and I love you for that.
I’m excited for you and on behalf of your readers and our listeners I thank you!
Now go and ENJOY your loves in life – privately.
Dxxx